fate

i was talking to my friend on messenger and we came across talking about regrets.

i'm learning to let go, to stop regretting and being so hard on myself.

it's always painful to forget something or someone that was so important to you.

but one by one it starts to ease and you'll be over it in no time.

my friend told me to think of it in this way.

if things were supposed to happen, then it would have.

like fate.

in his example, it was something like this.

seeing friends in the bus or in the mall. 

choices that he's made that ended up in "oh what the fuck, i didn't expect that."

it's fate. 

these things are to help us in our tough times.

when we are going through our struggles.

something that will get us back on track. 

something that will put us at ease.

i don't know if i believe in fate.

i don't know if i believe in anything.

but as far as i'm concerned, i have friends to help me.

with different friends with different point of views, it helps me get through each day.

one friend said that they're not sure if they believe in fate.

it's all luck based.

another friend said that they don't believe in fate.

by taking the definition in the dictionary she has explained to me that everything isn't predetermined unless it's related to some kind of religion. everything changes all the time and it's the choices that people make that will change their lives. nothing is predetermined other than the fact that the physical body will start decaying and die one day. 

i don't know what fate is.

i'm not sure if i will ever believe in it.

it's just one of those things (: